1. politely or patiently restrain an impulse to do something; refrain: "he modestly forbears to include his own work"
▪ refrain from doing or using (something):"Rebecca could not forbear a smile"
Word OriginOld Englishforberan (see for-, bear1). The original senses were ‘endure, bear with’, hence ‘endure the absence of, do without’, also ‘control oneself’, hence ‘refrain from’ (Middle English).