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Aug 13, 2024 · Sometimes it’s hard to know if you’re disciplining your children effectively. Try using these five measures from the Bible. Estimated reading time: 6 minutes. “Discipline” can be a really vague concept. “Christian Discipline” or “Biblical Discipline” can be just as vague or confusing.
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Many parents yell because it does two things: 1) it releases emotion (not in a healthy or productive way, mind you) and 2) it can scare kids into compliance. When we yell, we are revealing that we are overwhelmed and attempting to get back to a state of equilibrium through domination. If you struggle with losing your temper,this postmight help. By ...
Before the age of three, this tool is really the most effective. Children are naturally curious and easily distracted, so you can use these developmental tendencies to your advantage. Simply focus on what you would like them to shift their attention to rather than what you would like them to stop doing. This is also good for older children who get ...
This tool simply points out a more appropriate outlet or environment for the behavior they are engaged in. When kids are simply being kids, this can be very effective. You can say something like, “You can’t throw the ball inside, but you are welcome to go outside and play catch with your brother.” Or, “Wow, you have a ton of energy, why don’t you s...
There are a variety of reasons why kids don’t listen to us. Sometimes it is because our delivery is all off. Life is very full and it is easy to shout instructions from another room, hear a half-hearted, “Okay Mom,” but then realize minutes later that there has been no movement. This can create tension and even conflict. So try this: make eye conta...
Discipline is not about focusing on the negative. It can be very effective to point out the behavior you want to see more of. Remember try to focus on encouragement more than praise. Here’s an example of encouragement: “Hey! You sat down to do your homework without even being asked. That’s shows great personal responsibility.”
This can be a bit controversial as some will assert that ignoring children is never okay as it can affect their attachment bond. Ignoring as a form of discipline is quite different than ignoring as a pattern of interaction. Used as discipline, it becomes a strategic, time-limited intervention. You are not ignoring your child out of anger or frustra...
As parents, it’s important that we don’t just pay attention to behavior. We need to dig deeper to search for the underlying unmet need or hurt that is fueling the behavior. If your child comes home from school with a scowl on his face and then proceeds to create tension wherever he goes, you have a child that is in need of a heart-to-heart. Letting...
This is a very powerful tool in your toolbox. Kids spend much of their day with other people telling them where to go, what to do, and how fast to do it. While some kids don’t mind this, the lack of autonomy can make others feel frustrated which often expresses itself in negative behaviors. It can be helpful to provide plenty of opportunities for c...
These parenting cards are a tool that is an original of Cornerstones for Parents. It will help you talk to your young children (age 3-7) about the condition of their hearts as reflected in their behaviors. Kids can use the cards to identify their misbehaviors, take ownership and discuss ways to make it right. Think of these cards like a heart-to-he...
There are big differences between warnings and threats. A simple warning in light of a potentially problematic behavior is biblical and often very helpful. Kids need reminders of possible consequences for their behaviors. Just make sure that you are willing and able to follow through on that consequence if needed. “If I find your bike in front of t...
Godly character should be the goal of discipline; not just adherence to a list of rules. Have a Positive Attitude Towards Discipline. Don’t dread discipline. Discipline is respectful to the child and the world they will grow up to impact.
Aug 13, 2024 · Daniel P. Huerta, Focus on the Family's Vice President of Parenting, presents a collection of seven powerful character traits designed to help parents grow and thrive while raising Godly children. Order Today!
Jan 4, 2022 · God’s discipline is loving, as should it be between parent and child. Physical discipline should never be used to cause lasting physical harm or pain. Physical punishment should always be followed immediately by comforting the child with assurance that he/she is loved.
actively seek out ways to teach their children through the positive and proactive discipline of instruction, knowledge, and training. Throughout the Scripture God does not simply command His children what not to do.
Aug 13, 2024 · How do you get your children to mind without losing yours? That’s a challenge, and God’s Word has much to say about how we, as parents, can meet that challenge. It shows us how our parenting style can provide the kind of discipline that helps our children fulfill their responsibility.
