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Get the Full Audiobook for Free:https://amzn.to/4a6bnxn"I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality" by Jerold J. Kr...
- 6 min
- Essens Book Summaries
- Incidence of BPD
- Comorbidity & Similarities
- BPD Criteria
- Degrees of Borderline
- It’S A Mix of Nature & Nurture
- Borderline Relationships
- The Workplace For The BPD
- Genders & BPD
- Borderline’S Gullibility?
- Unstable Self-Image
Some studies say that around 6% of the US population suffers from BPD, but Jerold Kreisman says that figure might be an underestimation. Among patients seeking psychiatric care, between 15% and 25% are diagnosed with BPD, making it one of the most common of all of the personality disorders.
BPD present similarities, and sometimes coexists with: depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder (manic-depressive), schizophrenia, somatization disorder (hypochondriasis), dissociative identity disorder (multiple personalities), attention-deficit/ hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), post-traumatic stress disorder, alcoholism, drug abuse (including nicotine...
One individual is diagnosed with BPD if he presents 5 of the following 9 criteria: 1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment 2. Unstable and intense interpersonal relationships going from extremes idealization and devaluation (also known as “splitting”) 3. Lack of clear sense of identity: unstable self-image or sense of self 4. Impul...
Jerold Kreisman says that some researchers suggest changing the definition of borderline to move from a “yes” or “no” to a more modular definition. Such as, to make the BPD a spectrum disorder (like introversion and HPS, albeit neither of those are disorders of course). This would make sense because there are different “levels” of being a BPD. Some...
Causing BPD is a mix of genes (nature) and (nurture) life experiences. Says Jerold Kreisman: Many studies have also found a history of severe psychological, physical, or sexual abuse in BPD.
Borderlines cannot stand loneliness and desperately seeks relationships. Even when they feel mistreated by others, an abusive relationshipis better than loneliness. Relationships for borderlines tend to be, like their life, a difficult emotional roller coaster. Writes Jerold Kreisman: Borderline’s behavior is also incompatible with loving and stabl...
Albeit BPD have major difficulties in their personal lives and personal relationships, they can function well at work. Indeed, as long as their job is well structured, it can work as a sanctuary from their turbulent personal lives. They don’t function as well in highly competitive or random and unstructured jobs. A highly critical supervisor can al...
BPD is prevalent in both genders at roughly the same rate, but the severity of the symptoms is greater among women.
Cults and sects appeal more strongly to the borderline because they yearn for direction and acceptance. They also have a tendency to idealize, which the charismatic cult leaderis all too happy to fulfill. The borderline is also very vulnerable to black and white thinking and depicts reality as either “good” or “evil”, something that is also often p...
The borderline goes from a high opinion to a destructive self-assessment in a matter of hours, sometimes based solely on a single feedback or a silly mistake. Borderlines tend to have a fixed mindset, such as, they believe that their traits are carved in stone and they are either great or idiotic. And they switch between the two at the drop of a ha...
Sep 7, 2021 · After more than three decades as the essential guide to borderline personality disorder (BPD), the third edition of I Hate You—Don’t Leave Me now reflects the most up-to-date research that has opened doors to the neurobiological, genetic, and developmental roots of the disorder, as well as connections between BPD and substance abuse, sexual ...
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After more than three decades as the essential guide to borderline personality disorder (BPD), the third edition of I Hate You - Don’t Leave Me now reflects the most up-to-date research that has opened doors to the neurobiological, genetic, and developmental roots of the disorder, as well as connections between BPD and substance abuse, sexual ...
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- Jerold J. Kreisman, Hal Straus
- Kevin R. Free
Jan 1, 1989 · Jerold J. Kreisman, M.D., is a psychiatrist and leading expert on Borderline Personality Disorder. His international bestseller, I Hate You, Don't Leave Me, is considered a classic of both the popular and academic literature on BPD and has been translated into many languages around the world.
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- M.D. Kreisman, Jerold J., Hal Straus
Sep 8, 2021 · Book Review: I Hate You – Don’t Leave Me. September 8, 2021. I Hate You – Don’t Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality by Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Strauss is the new third edition of a book that was first published in 1989. It’s probably one of the more widely recognized books about borderline personality disorder (BPD).
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Jan 1, 2001 · Jerold Kreisman, M.D., is a psychiatrist and best-selling author. His books, I Hate You, Don't Leave Me, and Sometimes I Act Crazy. have been translated into several languages around the world. He is an Associate Clinical Professor at St. Louis University and has been designated a Distinguished Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association.
