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    Rules of Love

    2010 · Romance · 1h 15m

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  2. Jan 31, 2023 · 8 Rules of Love is an insightful and inspiring guide by Jay Shetty, delving into the depths of love, relationships, and personal growth. Shetty skillfully blends ancient wisdom and modern experiences, presenting a transformative roadmap to foster meaningful connections.

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  3. Jan 31, 2023 · The author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Think Like a Monk offers a revelatory guide to every stage of romance, drawing on ancient wisdom and new science. Nobody sits us down and teaches us how to love.

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    • Never invalidate or erase the personal reality of someone you love. Every one of us counts on our partner supporting and validating the way we see the world, even if he or she doesn’t see it the same way.
    • True compromise can only happen when each partner begins an interaction by first supporting the other’s point of view. When intimate partners have conflicting opinions, they too often flare into justification and defense.
    • Quality relationships are made up of two partners who treasure and uphold a set of mutual beliefs and ethics. I cannot underscore enough how important it is for intimate partners to be authentic and open about what they hold sacred, as well as what they expect of each other, when they begin a relationship.
    • Bids for connection are always honored. When either partner needs the attention or support of the other, that request must be responded to in some way.
    • Never question the intent of your significant other or the nature of the relationship itself. Just because you’ve experienced a problem today doesn’t mean the relationship itself is a problem.
    • Don’t correct your spouse. This is one of the hardest relationship rules for those with a strong competitive nature. It doesn’t mean you allow your spouse to be wrong.
    • Don’t get stuck in a repetitious pattern. We all have patterns. They’re a way for our brains to save decision-making energy and can even be beneficial.
    • Never threaten the relationship. While a little uncertainty makes a relationship exciting, “on again, off again” partnerships or those where one partner consistently threatens a breakup are never healthy.
    • Trust Yourself. The secret to finding lasting love is to trust your intuition, your knowing. You are the expert of you. You are the one who knows what makes you happy.
    • You Can’t Hurry Love. The biggest secret to finding lasting love is clear expectations and clear communication. We have seen so many rom-coms and fairytales that we begin to believe the myth that love is just going to fall into our laps.
    • What Gets You Together Isn’t What Keeps You Together. The strategies that help you attract a partner aren’t the same ones that support a fulfilling long-term relationship.
    • Love Is a Contract. The secret to lasting love is understanding the game. Love is much more about skill, than luck. Lasting love doesn't just happen. The negotiation for commitment begins with the first text.
  4. Jan 31, 2023 · Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before.

  5. Jan 31, 2023 · Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better...

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