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Jan 24, 2024 · CHAKRABARTI: So those were On Point listeners Kristen Fowler in Lexington, Kentucky, Bill Henley in Oregon, and Brigette Bishop in Norfolk, Massachusetts, sharing some of the deeply painful reasons...
Jun 29, 2021 · Pastor Andy Stanley of the Atlanta area recently cited the top five reasons that people leave the church. On the list was “they had a bad church experience,” where church members...
- Chris Palusky
- They Got Out of The habit.
- They Left After They Graduated from High School.
- They Decided They Didn’T Like The Institutional Church.
- They Were Hurt at The Church.
- They Say They Couldn’T Find A Church to Meet Their needs.
- They Had A Need and Felt The Church Didn’T Meet it.
- They Never Felt Connected in The Church.
- They Did Not Give to The Church.
- They Left When Their Pastor Left.
- They Moved and Never Went Back to Church.
“There was no big crisis,” Rainer says. These people simply begin to miss one or two services here and there and then eventually stop going altogether. “Discipline is a close synonym with habit,” Rainer says. And attending church is another discipline. The local church, at its biblical origins, is a place where people gathered together on a regular...
This is a reality that has to be faced as a common reason for dropping out of church. But a helpful factor in keeping college students in church, Rainer suggests, is a thriving student ministry that stresses the importance of staying in church after going away to college. “It has to be consistent in preparing them for life past high school,” Rainer...
There are people who presume that because the church is an institution, it has negative connotations. But if the church is an institution and a family, is it a right answer to then abandon loyalty to family because of dislike of institutions? Rainer says that the church is an institution that has remained prevalent throughout history because of the...
Although the reality of hurt from the church exists, Rainer says to remember the reason we come to church in the first place. “We don’t come to church for the people, we come to the church for Christ,” Rainer says. “We get benefits from the fellowship, but our motivation is for Christ, ultimately.” And if our motivation to come is about Jesus and n...
This attitude approaches church with a consumer mentality. “We want church because of what the church can do for us,” Rainer says. “We go shopping.” This is the practice of preferential Christianity—church hopping without ever being satisfied.
Related to the previous answer Rainer says, “it can be a general consumer mentality or it can be something specific that happened.” Situations of grief over the loss of a loved one, for example, cannot be placed in the same boat as a simplistic consumer mentality. “There are many times that the church cannot meet the needs to the level emotionally,...
“Someone who is not giving may not feel connected,” Rainer says. These are people who are only expecting ministry, not participating in it, and who aren’t in community groups or actively involved in the worship at the church. “The leadership needs to do everything it can, but connecting, largely, is going to be dependent on the church member and wh...
This pattern is detectable. Church leaders can have the person with the giving records give them warning signs when people begin to drift. With these known warnings signs, leaders can do things such as taking members to lunch or to hang out with that person, seeking to get at the root of issues with individuals that can hopefully prevent them from ...
“Most of the time it is just when someone’s allegiance is tied too closely to a person rather than to Christ,” Rainer says. We must be careful, Rainer adds, not to build churches on the platform of the pastor as a person instead of the mission of the church and the doctrine and the gospel.
This is the situation of a life disruption and people just never returned to church. It’s difficult to find a new church in a new area and get plugged in with the new community. “How many of the formerly churched relocated and never connected with a church?” Rainer asks. “Why did they take this path?” How will your church approach these issues?
Jul 29, 2023 · Forty million Americans have stopped attending church in the past 25 years. That’s something like 12 percent of the population, and it represents the largest concentrated change in church ...
- Jake Meador
Sep 15, 2023 · A new book looks at why millions of Americans left church — and what might bring them back.
Feb 14, 2022 · Pastor Kate Murphy of The Grove in Charlotte, North Carolina, has pastored a church that was dying. She’s seen people leave and, more often than not, it was over personal preferences.
Jan 24, 2024 · The reason why people left were primarily very pedestrian reasons that seemed actually very pragmatic. And yeah, that was a real surprise for us, to see that it looked like 30 of the 40 million people who left for very pragmatic and, frankly, boring reasons, the other two stories that were there.
