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Dec 21, 2023 · So in this article, I will give you the No-BS signs that you’ll never find love (unless you make some changes). 1) You’re a creature of comfort You value comfort—and that’s not a bad thing, we all need comfort in our lives—but the problem is that you value it too much.
- Pearl Nash
- You’re pursuing unavailable people. Unavailable can mean lots of things—maybe the last person you dated was married or lived far away, or maybe you gravitate towards people who can’t open up emotionally.
- You’re afraid of getting hurt or rejected. If you’re afraid things won’t work out, chances are you won’t pursue them. Maybe you’re afraid to make a move at all, or you find a reason to back out of relationships because you’re afraid your partner will leave you one day.
- You’re insecure or have low self-esteem. If you struggle with low self-worth, you may constantly doubt the love and praise of your partner or convince yourself that they can’t love you.
- You’re only looking for the “perfect person.” If your standards are too high, you may never find someone “good enough” to love. This isn’t to say you should lower your standards—just remember that nobody is perfect.
- You Keep Falling for the Wrong People. Do you keep finding yourself attracted to partners who are ultimately unavailable, unreliable, or otherwise not a good match?
- You Expect Rejection. If you go into new relationships or dating situations already expecting rejection, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Approaching romantic possibilities from a stance of pessimism and fear causes you to hold back emotionally.
- You Don't Put Yourself Out There. Staying isolated or avoiding meeting new people and potential partners restricts your opportunities to find love. If you rarely socialize, have an insular friend group, or refuse to try dating apps, you limit your prospects of meeting someone special.
- You're Hung Up on an Ex. Being unable to move on from a former partner or spouse can make you feel like you'll never find love again. Idealizing the past relationship despite its flaws or continuing contact gives false hope.
Dec 11, 2019 · What Percentage of People Struggle to Find Romance? New research explores the prevalence of long-term involuntary singlehood. Posted December 11, 2019 | Reviewed by Gary Drevitch
- Age doesn’t matter. It may be an old cliche and you might well roll your eyes at this one, but it’s true! Age is just a number and has absolutely no effect on your ability to meet someone.
- There’s no such thing as ‘The One.’ Yes, I’m going there. I’m a firm believer that there being only one person in the world with whom we could ever be happy is a complete myth, constructed to make us all panic, get into the box that’s been made for us and conform to society’s norms.
- You’re growing every day. A huge reason for optimism is that with every day you’re single, you get to know yourself a little better. It gives you time for self-love, to accept yourself and figure out the kind of life you really want to live.
- You’ve got high standards. If you’re worried about the fact you’ll never find love, then chances are your high standards or unrealistic expectations have got something to do with your single status.
May 27, 2022 · If you ever find yourself feeling unloved (hey, it happens), from a Maslowian perspective, it makes full sense that seeking love should be a core goal toward emotional restoration and balance.
Nov 21, 2016 · Key points. Some people may develop a kind of protective shield that prevents them from being able to love other people on a conscious level. Being silently rejected day after day can break...
