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Jul 1, 2022 · You go in without a badge, without backup, and often without any way to easily communicate or call for help. And while undercover, you have to pretend to be someone you're not and live with the constant risk of being unmasked.
- Jeff Somers
- 13 Reasons Why Your Spouse May Blame You For Eveything
- How to Deal with A Spouse Who Blames You For Everything
- Frequently Asked Questions
1. They are stressed.
Life is stressful in many ways: work, relationships, family, health, and financial to name but a few. If your partner has been experiencing a lot of stress recently, or they simply get stressed easily, they may look for a way to express their anxiety and frustration. That expression could take the form of blame. They may see things that are going wrong or challenges that seem too hard to face, and they may blame you for them. Related article: 12 Tips For Dealing With A Stressed Partner And He...
2. They have low self-esteem.
A person with low self-esteem doesn’t particularly like themselves. Unfortunately, this dislike can often permeate into their relationships. They may be struggling with their emotions and with life in general, but they feel unable to ask for help. Instead, they point the finger at anyone who is present. As their spouse, that means you much of the time. As with stress, you become an outlet for their difficult thoughts and feelings. Related article: 6 Signs Your Man Has Low Self-Esteem (+ 5 Way...
3. They don’t want to change.
Accepting responsibility for their actions means facing up to the possibility that they need to change. And change is scary for many people, especially when that change involves your own behavior. It is far easier not to change. So to justify not addressing their own shortcomings, they shift them onto you. Suddenly, since everything is your fault, they are no longer required to put in the hard work – and it is hard work – to change how they are and who they are.
Whilst it can be helpful to identify the core reasons why your partner blames you for things, what you are really looking for is some advice on how to handle the situation. Let’s look at some of the steps you will have to take.
Should I just say nothing when they blame me?
You might be tempted to just stay quiet when your spouse blames you for everything, but the message you send by doing this is that you are okay with being blamed. This will only reinforce their behavior and make it more frequent. You should be able to say, in a calm and neutral voice, that you do not accept responsibility for all the problems they are trying to blame you for (assuming it was in no way your fault). By using this approach consistently, you teach your spouse that you are not pre...
How can I tell when something really is my fault?
When your partner blames you for everything, it can be difficult to assess what is and what is not your fault. You should be willing to accept some responsibility for things that you had a level of influence over, but you can’t do that if you’re confused by your partner’s comments. This is important, because whilst taking responsibility is a good thing, taking all the accountability all of the time will harm your mental well-being in the long run. You definitely should not be apologizing for...
My spouse is a hypocrite and blames me for things they also do. What should I do?
It’s amazing how some people can turn a blind eye to the things they do and then scold others for precisely the same things. This is bad behavior and hypocritical and should not be tolerated. This often happens when that thing creates a problem for them. For example, if they don’t tidy up the kitchen after making a sandwich, it doesn’t really impact them – they have their food and can enjoy it. If you don’t tidy up the kitchen after breakfast, however, they may then have to clean up after you...
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