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Jul 16, 2019 · Power, identity, gender, society, libido, and aggression all intertwine their paths to produce a tangle of influences, somewhat difficult to explore. Submission and desire are not antagonistic concepts but rather closely related. Download chapter PDF.
- Miguel Ángel González-Torres, Aranzazu Fernandez-Rivas
- 2019
May 13, 2019 · Both surrender and submission involve yielding to a superior power. However, in romantic relations, they differ in a way that makes only surrender a delightful, thriving experience.
Jun 11, 2012 · Key points. All humans appear to possess subcortical circuits for sexual dominance as well as submission. Many alpha males in socially dominant positions experience relief in identifying with a...
- Correcting Common Misconceptions About BDSM
- The Origins of Submissiveness
- Why Submissiveness Can Bring Pleasure
- Beyond Bdsm: Pain as Pleasure
Before delving into the origins of subs’ pleasure from pain, let’s correct some common misconceptions: 1. BDSM players are mentally healthy. Many studies have shown that BDSM aficionados are a cross-section of the population, the people next door, with no greater rates of sexual traumaor mental illness than the general population. 2. Subs enjoy onl...
The Canadian investigators used Internet BDSM sites to recruit subs. They obtained completed surveys from 152. Many cited multiple origins for their submissiveness: 1. Three-quarters (78%) said they were born submissive. “I don’t know why. I was born that way.” “I was like 5 when I started having BDSM fantasies.” “At a young age, long before I felt...
The bottoms in the survey enjoyed submissiveness for many reasons: 1. Nearly half (46%) said they felt turned on by role-playing. “I get very aroused serving another’s needs.” “I have powerful fantasies of seeing myself as the devoted slave of a powerful owner.” “I trust my dom to hurt me but never cause real harm. With the deep trust we share, we ...
Imagine hikers climbing to a mountain summit. Along the way, they get sunburned, bitten by insects, and scratched by brambles. At the summit, they have sore muscles and aching joints. But the view is sensational, and their sense of accomplishment brings profound pleasure that cannot be experienced any other way. Subs feel the same way. Ever heard o...
Submissives all over seem to know what they want out of a relationship; it's always present in their minds: the play, the sex, the love, or the strictness of dominance. Wants are very valid to the happiness in your life, but more important are the needs.
Here, we’ll take about best practices in vetting, negotiating, and actually submitting in a scene. And beyond that, we’ll devote a whole chapter to solo submission and centering your submissive identity on your relationship with yourself, rather than waiting for a Dom to come along and unlock it for you.
Apr 4, 2024 · Desire to please: They genuinely want to make their partner happy, often going the extra mile to fulfill their wishes. Trust in their partner’s judgment: Submissives trust their partner’s decisions and respect their leadership.
