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Jan 10, 2023 · Tantrums happen nearly every day. The tantrums start to become aggressive — when a child hits, kicks, bites others or themselves and/or breaks things during the tantrum. Tantrums continue frequently past the peak age (2-3 years old). Temper tantrums happen in a variety of settings both in and out of the home.
Feb 1, 2016 · The period between 18 months and 3 years is an exciting time. Toddlers are becoming aware that they are separate individuals from their parents and the other important people in their world. This means that they are eager to assert themselves, communicate their likes and dislikes, and act independently (as much as they can!).
Jun 25, 2024 · The first, and maybe the most important step, is to remain calm and keep your emotions in check. “When a child is expressing a lot of emotion, and the parents meet that with more emotion, it can ...
- What Is Toddler Aggression?
- 4 Possible Reasons Behind “Toddler Aggression”
- What We Can Do
- Next Steps
Hitting, biting, kicking, scratching, or throwing objects are some of the more common aggressive behaviors. Many people don’t realize that a lot of what we label as “toddler aggression” is not deliberate behavior on the part of the child to hurt others. Many people have different ideas of what is toddler aggression, and whether or not a particular ...
Difficulty handling frustration and other big emotions
Toddlers are just getting started on their way to learning to regulate their emotions and actions. The part of their brain called the “frontal cortex”, also called the “brakes”, won’t fully develop until your child is well into their 20s! If a child is hitting, biting, or kicking, it may be a sign that they are struggling with emotional regulation or experiencing stress in their environment.
Budding skills and independence
Toddlers are just starting to learn about independence! They’re also very curious about the world around them. They’re like little scientists who test “theories” and see what happens as a result of the actions they take. In the process of exploring and trying to satisfy their curiosity, they may do things that people interpret as aggression. For example, a toddler may be curious about what happens if he throws a toy to the wall or (oh no!) at your favorite vase. Toddlers’ skills are also grow...
Lack of communication skills
Young kids are just starting to learn to talk and communicate with others. Even if they already know how to use their words when they are calm, this doesn’t mean they have all these skills when they are upset.
Here are some things we can do to help toddlers on their way to learning to better handle their emotions and deal with frustration in a healthier way.
If you’re worried about your child’s aggressive behavior, it’s important to seek help early. A pediatrician or mental health professional can guide you on how to address the behavior and may recommend therapy or other interventions if necessary. Whether or not you notice any of these “when to worry” signs, kids still need support in learning how to...
Jan 20, 2023 · When your child uses these strategies rather than hitting, kicking, or biting, compliment them on their good behavior and praise them for how grown-up they are acting. And don't forget to reward good behavior when you see your child being gentle and kind rather than angry and aggressive. 6. Use a distraction technique.
Dec 17, 2023 · Your toddler is just learning about social cues, language, impulse control, emotional regulation, and boundaries. Sometimes, they might feel frustrated or overwhelmed—and that can cause poor ...
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Aggression in young people is an important social issue. Children and youth who behave aggressively may harm not only themselves, but also their families, their communities and society at large. Research shows us that children with serious aggression problems are more likely than children without such problems to become teenagers who have ...