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I unapologetically hate kids, PERSONAL. I see people on here who love kids, but don't want any of their own. I see people on her who hate zombie-fied parents. I see people on here who hate kids. That's what group I'm in. I hate kids. I may be one of those people who gives CF people a bad rep, but it's just how I feel. I hate kids.
I'm never rude to parents just for being parents or even if their kid is misbehaving. I get it. Kids will be kids. I don't "blame" the kids for doing perfectly normal things for their developmental stage. But I hate being around it. It annoys me slightly when people in this sub insist "we don't hate kids, just bad parents." That's not how I feel.
- Acknowledge Your Feelings
- Identify The Cause of Your Feelings
- Manage Your Expectations
- Get to Know Your Child Better
- Stay Positive
- Commit to Not Criticizing
- When There’S A Personality Clash with Your Child
- Conclusion
Don’t push your feelings away because you feel guilty or think it’s wrong to dislike your child. You don’t have to like the emotional truth—you only need to own it. Change can’t begin until you are honest with yourself about how you feel. Ask yourself, “What am I feeling and why?” It’s important to accept the fact that you won’t always like your ki...
Find some time to think about the root cause of your feelings. Are there external influences affecting your child’s behavior, such as problems at school? Or is it more to do with your preconceived expectations? Maybe you don’t like your child because they’re so different from you. Or perhaps you don’t like your child because they act out, are defia...
Accept your child for who they are, and you can move toward a better relationship. If your child is different than your expectations, then manage those expectations. Remember, ultimately, the only person you can control is you. Learn to find the space between your child’s action and your reaction. It is here that you can learn to be a calm parent a...
Make time to do something fun. Learn what your child’s likes and dislikes and what makes them tick. Try to listen without judging—children are more likely to react negatively when they feel scrutinized. Your child will appreciate the chance to open up and tell you how they’re feeling.
Talk to your kids as if you like them, even when saying ‘no’ or giving consequences. Don’t scowl, and speak with a soft tone that gives them the message you care about them. Staying positive can be hard, especially when you’re frustrated and your child has been disrespectful. Still, be as positive as you can when dealing with them because they pick...
Here’s a trick that works for me. I get up in the morning, and I say to myself, “Okay, not one criticism can come out of my mouth today.” I make it a very conscious thought and activity. It’s so automatic for some of us to criticize, and half the time, we don’t even know we’re doing it. So make it a conscious effort. Notice when your child does som...
What if your personalities simply clash? Maybe your child is not a friend you would have chosen. Perhaps you’re too different or too similar. Problems start when you carry around a lot of disappointment about somebody and try to change them in some way or another. That’s when the negative cycle begins. Keep in mind that your child is not your frien...
By taking responsibility for your emotions and making an effort, you’re showing your child that you want things to be better. Tell your child: “I know we haven’t always gotten along in the past because I’ve been too hard on you. I apologize and am working on it.” That effort will go a long way with your child. Get calm, accept your child, and help ...
Aug 31, 2021 · In a survey published in June, 8 percent of British parents said that they regret having kids. And in two recent studies, an assistant psychology professor at SWPS University, Konrad Piotrowski ...
- Gail Cornwall
Feb 3, 2017 · Hatred implies something deeply felt, something cold and cruel — something that you might even be picketing against right now. Maybe, though, some people mistake what annoys them for hatred and ...
Jan 17, 2019 · Jan. 17, 2019. The single achievement of “I Hate Kids,” a new comedy directed by John Asher, is that it is simultaneously tepid and offensive. Tom Everett Scott ( once upon a time an engaging ...
