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We all have different needs, wants, and desires in a relationship, but we may not always be sure what they are or how to communicate them to a partner. If you've ever wondered what your love language is, take this free quiz to find out the best ways for your partner to show their affection.
This love language quiz is for anyone who is curious about love languages and learning more about how they prefer to receive love and affection. When you know your love language, it can help you better communicate with your partner about how they can meet your needs.
You may also find this quiz helpful in learning more about your partner's love language and the best ways to show them love.
This love language quiz is based on the five love languages first described by author Gary Chapman in his book The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Each response corresponds with one of the five love languages.
While this quiz is intended for a bit of fun, we also think it should inspire some self-reflection and help you think more about your thoughts, feelings, and needs in a relationship. If you've ever struggled to communicate your needs with a partner, a better understanding of your love language could help you and your partner connect on a deeper level.
Love languages are used to describe how people prefer to show and receive love and affection. There are five: words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, and receiving gifts.
Author, counselor, and pastor, Gary Chapman first named the five love languages in his 1992 book "The 5 Love Languages." Chapman created the love languages based on observations he made while counseling couples. He noticed communication patterns between partners and could see when they weren’t meeting each other’s emotional needs.
Words of Affirmation
Words of affirmation means the person prefers to receive love by way of spoken language or written messages. They probably enjoy being told they’re loved and appreciated and will respond well to love notes, texts, and encouraging words when they’re doing something. Did your partner do something really great or helpful? Make sure to tell them.
Quality Time
This person wants you to spend quality time with them. It can be shorter blocks of time as long as you give them your full attention. Someone with this love language will value quality over quantity. They’ll want you to put down your cell phone or any screen, make eye contact, listen to what they’re saying, and respond thoughtfully.
Physical Touch
Someone who has physical touch as their primary love language feels love when affection is shown physically. It could be sex, but physical touch is also about more than sexual encounters. They might enjoy a hug, back rub, cuddling, hand-holding, a gentle massage, and more. A person with this love language feels love by receiving touch, and they want to be close to a partner physically.
Partners might not have the same love language, but if they can learn each other’s language, they’re more likely to make each other feel loved and appreciated. Chapman felt that learning a partner’s love language and practicing it was an easy way to improve the relationship.
Taking the time to learn how someone else prefers to receive love requires you to focus on another person’s needs, which can boost empathy and promote personal growth.
Chapman didn’t just create love languages for romantic relationships. They can also apply to parents and children, friends, and other family members. Learning the love language of different people in your life can help to enrich these relationships by making others feel loved, seen, and appreciated.
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•Bland, A. M., & McQueen, K. S. (2018). The Distribution of Chapman’s Love Languages in Couples: An Exploratory Cluster Analysis. Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, 7(2), 103-126. http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/cfp0000102
Take this free quiz based on the five love languages by Gary Chapman to discover how you prefer to show and receive love and affection. Learn more about your love language and how it can help you communicate better with your partner.
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